Don't Overlook the Importance of Foreplay

Foreplay isn't nuclear physics, but it is an essential part of your relationship's sexual health and even though there will be plenty of occasions where you and your partner are feeling randy enough to get right down to business without it, when you regularly neglect foreplay you do so at the peril of your steadily burning homefires.

Foreplay is part of the main course, not just an appetizer. You're not much of a golfer if your short game is terrible, right? That's how important foreplay can be for your sex life and getting good at it can take your game to another level all together. All of the delights available to you during foreplay (kissing, touching, etc) can heighten and prolong the sexual experience for both of you, and if you work hard to make sure your girl is enjoying the experience she'll be very happy to reciprocate.

A couple's sexual spontaneity is the result of quality pre-game friskiness in the bedroom. That's because your ability to turn your partner on, much like your short game, takes practice to master. Instead of looking at foreplay as something you have to do in order to get your wife or girlfriend on the same page so you two can hop on the good foot and do the bad thing, start using it as an opportunity to learn about all of her erogenous zones and how she likes to be touched. You can tuck this knowledge away and use it later when you're both struck with a sudden urge to strip each others clothes off for a little action.

Engaging in foreplay will make your girl feel sexy. Foreplay can take a lot of the vulnerability out of getting naked in front of each other (even for couples in long-term relationships) and can create an atmosphere where your partner feels more comfortable expressing her desires or trying new things. If you've got a tigress in the bedroom waiting to be unleashed, foreplay will help you make that happen.

Don't send the wrong message to the girl you've been dating or leave your wife feeling unsatisfied. Use foreplay to ensure that both of your needs are met and future sexual encounters will be more enjoyable and more frequent. Your ability to use foreplay to create an incredible sexual experience is what sets you apart from the crowd. Any ol' guy can hit it and quit it, but girls know it takes a real man to foreplay.