How Squirting Orgasms Sometimes Require Going Slow - Foreplay Techniques for Giving a Slower Orgasm

When people think of female squirting orgasms (also known as female ejaculation orgasms and occasionally as gushing orgasms) a common mistake is to think that you have to use lots of speed and power to give her a squirting orgasm. This error is often caused by people's first exposure to these orgasms: in pornography. While the average porno-starlet can handle this kind of crazy stimulation, it is far too intense for most normal women. On top of that it is likely to make your cramped up or tired and unable to give her the gushing orgasm.

A Slower Approach to Female Ejaculation Orgasms

In fact it is a lot better to go slowly. Nowhere is this truer than during foreplay. Really take your time with foreplay, as your goal here is to get her wet enough that she is most of the way to orgasming before you have even penetrated her with your fingers. There are countless foreplay techniques and you can have a lot of fun finding out the ones that she likes the best. I have found stroking her through her clothes and occasionally slipping a finger into her vagina is the best way to give a woman foreplay for a gushing orgasm.

A Slower Stroking Technique

Once she is really wet, you can then begin the actual orgasm. Usually, most guys go for a frenzied motion as soon as they penetrate her with their fingers. Instead you should take it more slowly and make longer, slower movements at first. Practice making a long arc as you bring your fingers towards the bottom of your palm and making sure that this motion slides across the length of her G-spot. What you are waiting for is for her vagina to enlarge a little (Sometimes called ballooning) and this is the key to moving more slowly. You also want to make this erotic for her, by whispering sexual things to her or telling her how sexy she looks, as this will add some intimacy to the slow build-up that will make it a lot better for her.

The Female Ejaculation Orgasm

As you bring her up to orgasm, it is time to increase the speed and use more of your arm to make a more powerful motion. At this point it is okay to do the kind of thing that you saw on adult movies! Use your biceps to pull your arm quickly across her G-spot and keep your wrist loose, so that you don't cramp up. If you do this correctly you should notice that she will either ejaculate or at least have a big orgasm.

The key to having a squirting orgasm is to make sure that you don't rush into the orgasm and make sure that you take care of everything else first. The squirting orgasm is basically a combination of all the other foreplay and touching techniques that you have learned combined into one great orgasm. If you t